I am pre-emptively guessing that people will suggest FC hopping, and it's totally valid! However I think my issue is a bit deeper.
My FC is great! Everyone is friendly, people are talking and respond and help out with materials and all sorts of things, it's all lovely. It's really the best I can expect from an FC which is why I prefaced this with the hop thing.
But, I can never shake the feeling that I don't really belong anywhere and nobody is actually a friend. It's always like, work colleagues kind of vibe to me. I don't have any worries or issues socialising, I always talk a lot about stuff. But it feels like there are always cliques and when I don't have any IRL friends, it feels like I'm always just trying to butt into other people's groups and I'm not really part of the crowd.
Maybe this is just a silly post but I was curious to see if anyone else feels the same. Again, my FC is lovely and they're all great people! But I feel like I don't belong, and it's felt the same in every FC I've ever been in, as varied as they've been. Curious to see how others feel!
EDIT: I meant "when I don't have any IRL friends [WHO PLAY 14]" hahah
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My FC is great! Everyone is friendly, people are talking and respond and help out with materials and all sorts of things, it's all lovely. It's really the best I can expect from an FC which is why I prefaced this with the hop thing.
But, I can never shake the feeling that I don't really belong anywhere and nobody is actually a friend. It's always like, work colleagues kind of vibe to me. I don't have any worries or issues socialising, I always talk a lot about stuff. But it feels like there are always cliques and when I don't have any IRL friends, it feels like I'm always just trying to butt into other people's groups and I'm not really part of the crowd.
Maybe this is just a silly post but I was curious to see if anyone else feels the same. Again, my FC is lovely and they're all great people! But I feel like I don't belong, and it's felt the same in every FC I've ever been in, as varied as they've been. Curious to see how others feel!
EDIT: I meant "when I don't have any IRL friends [WHO PLAY 14]" hahah
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